One is curious why it is that a person who is so acutely aware of words, and seems to have some reasonably appreciable ability to craft them nicely fails so horribly to recognize her use of "sexist" language.
Let's have a look-see as an abject example. You can try this at home, kiddies - just pick any old thread you'd like and read Ophelia's comments; it shows up all over the place. For instance, the skepchicks and that ilk warrant address as people while those who are othered are rendered as men.
Gender traitor mentioned the sexist language that drips over at Ophelia's place. Ophelia takes umbrage.
In response, Ophelia "plays" stupid.